How to Substantially Lower the Divorce Rate

Oh, I can hear the comments coming from this article now. Lol. Why do approximately 50% of all marriages in America end in divorce? Why does a couple who get a divorce, statistically end up with 4 divorces over their lifetime? I’ve never met anyone who went into a marriage with the intent to divorce. So what happened?

Yes, we have the abusive marriages, whether physical or emotional that nobody should have to endure.  But what about the majority of marriages that lose their zest?

The Problem

The all too typical scenario is that a couple gets busy having and raising kids, working jobs and performing the day to day life essentials that they forget about making each other feel sexy.

Couples lose the flirtiness, sexiness and spontaneity that once existed. But how do you get the sexy endorphins that lead to marriage in the first place? If it was easy, everyone would do it, right. Well, for the reality check, it’s not easy, but very doable!

A little flirting with your spouse who you’ve been with over and over again every day for a zillion years, isn’t going to be enough. Plenty of couples have tried and failed. The flirting will last for a day or a weekend, and then disappear back into the reality of monotonous life. So how do get the spicy sexuality back and keep it long-term.

The Solution

Do you know that swingers only have a 2% divorce rate? Why is the divorce rate 96% less for swingers in non-monogamous relationships versus monogamous relationships? There’s a few factors and most of them revolve around the woman.

Couples in non-monogamous marriages are able to flirt with other people and be flirted back with. This let’s each partner feel like they’re still sexy and wanted sexually. THIS IS HUGE! I can’t emphasize this enough.

Even if you never have sex with another couple or person, just the freedom to give each other the ability to flirt can change your marriage forever.

It takes open communication between a couple to allow each other to flirt and be flirted with by others. For a lot of couples, this communication is step 1 to creating a stronger marriage. Come on, you know that you’ve seen some hot woman or man and wished for a moment that you weren’t married! Why not talk openly to your partner about your attractions to another person. You may be married, but you’re not dead!

Yes, your partner may get some feelings of jealousy at first, but through communication and allowing your partner to have the same flirting opportunities, the jealousy and insecurities can be worked through (this is the hard part but well worth it).

Guess what happens when you know that you can flirt with others and be flirted with? Each partner starts getting their ass in shape. They usually start working out, eating better, grooming and dressing better. All the things each partner probably did to land each other before marriage, but lost over the years. Now, each partner in the marriage starts looking more appealing to each other, further creating those sexy juices!

If you have a situation where you’re able to flirt with another person, come home and tell your spouse about the experience while showing how turned on you are for your spouse. You’ll most likely be surprised how hot your spouse finds it and your spouse will encourage you to flirt with others more often; wink, wink.

Next Escalation

If the couple can communicate and work through their insecurities, the next step may be openly agreeing to allow kissing another person. Let’s face it, you get all turned on by flirting, but not allowed to touch. Sounds a little like torture to me!

There’s many levels of escalation after kissing and each couple will need to decide and agree on how far they go. Maybe the wife has always been curious about being with another woman and the two of you agree to go on an adult dating site like SAFSocial to find a woman for your first ever couple threesome.

Maybe, you’re both ready to visit a sex club, watch and only have sex with each other (maybe in an open room where everyone can watch), or maybe escalate the situation to finding another hot couple in the same position as you guys. That’s why couples go to sex clubs.

Join SAFSocial a free social network created mostly for couples. It’s similar to Facebook but for adults. It’s also a great platform for singles to find couples. SAFSocial has listings of sex clubs, parties, events, podcasts, blogs and a full dating section. Enjoy!

Remember, marriage is not meant to be the end to your sexual fantasies, but the beginning!


A New Provocative Online Space

If looking for vanilla sex in the “real world” is difficult, looking for sexually adventurous encounters is ten times more so. If your search brought you to this post, you’re probably aware of this fact. Maybe you have an adultfriendfinder login but want to explore beyond that. The good news is that another oasis of pleasures is at the fingertips of those looking for passionate and unorthodox sexual delights. SAF Social is an open space for sexually adventurous adults with a wide variety of categories and a finely tuned sexual-networking system. Finding the risqué escapades that excite your libido is now as easy as checking a few boxes and then choosing from a smorgasbord of sensual images and steamy profiles.

During the process of signing up for SAF Social (which gives you the equivalent of an adultfriendfinder login), you get to explore as well as expand your sexual boundaries. While signing up, the site allows you to identify yourself as a bisexual male/female or a straight couple, and it lets you request your ideal scenario via choices ranging from soft swaps to full-on polyamory.

SAF Social also allows you to identify your ideal first date. Their choices span the spectrum of mature and consensual adult behavior—whether it’s of the tamer, exploratory type (“grab a drink only”) or the more sexually flagrant behavior that’s upfront about wanting immediate “sex if we click.” Along the way, you also get to choose if you’d prefer to meet at a vanilla/swinger club or if you’d like to add extra friends to the party to steam things up even further. We’re not saying throw away your adultfriendfinder login, but these very detailed selections make your SAF Social login so much more specific to your sexual needs than a basic aff login.

By giving you a variety of choices to identify your sexual orientation, SAF Social gives you sex play tailored to your most intimate and erotic desires. It ensures that you get seen by people interested in your method of sexual expression and allows you to include as much sexual variety as you would like. It also gives you the option not to share your sexuality—in case you’d like to take your time to explore the carnal pleasures on the site without committing to a particular sexual preference.

Provocative and animalistic connections are at your fingertips after sign-up, which only takes a few seconds and a few clicks. Better than an adultfriendfinder login, your SAF Social account gives you the freedom to be open, to create your own stories, blogs, and sexual encounters to spice up the sex lives of your friends and followers. You also get to enjoy sexy video stories from your connections and featured stories in your news feed. You’ll never get bored—and since these “sexperiences” come from your connections, you can make them real and personal whenever you want. A click of your mouse can quickly transform an online connection into a one-on-one sexual encounter in your bedroom.

If an adultfriendfinder login gives you access to a world of steamy sexual exploration, the SAF Social login gives you access to a universe. The idea behind general adult networking sites is to use an aff login (or the equivalent) to re-create the bar experience of meeting people online. Yet sites like SAF Social take the process of arranging adult sexual encounters a step further by combining this experience with shopping, group memberships, event promotion, and so much more. Joining the network is sure to supercharge the sexual life of sensual, mature, and adventurous adults.


How To Spice Up Your Marriage

Just shoot me! That’s my thought if I have to have sex with the same person for the rest of my life. Who came up with this crazy rule anyhow? It doesn’t feel right. Gone are the days of kinky sex, the thrill of first-time sex with a stranger, or the intense and steamy one-night stands with someone way hotter than I probably deserve. Truth be told, marriage can get boring, but why does it have to?

Sexual boredom has become the norm in so many relationships. The good news is that there are some things that your partner and you can do to bring the fire back like an erupting volcano.

Put on Something Racy That Will Capture Your Husband’s Attention

After being married for a long time, we get used to the comfy, cotton pajamas. It can be lingerie or just a fun and flirty silk outfit that will grab your husband’s attention like a magnet. If you are working on a tight budget, try something that you already have but you haven’t worn for a while. You can find great deals at the popular departmental store especially on their clearance sale. A simple t-shirt or button-down shirt with nothing else on is about as sexy as it gets for a man to see.

Date your Spouse

Many couples stop going on dates a few years after their wedding. Don’t allow your marriage to be stereotypical without fun or flirting. Bring the passion into the relationship. Invest in your marriage by spending time together with your spouse, just as if the two of you were first dating. Set aside a budget and allocate some money for your dates. You will be surprised that the more you spend time together on dates, home the more passion starts to build at home.

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Have Sex with Others

Try what my wife and I call “puppy shopping” on an adult website. It’s just like looking at cute puppies online. My wife and I like to go onto an adult social network like SAFSocial and view the singles and couples. We then comment like, “oh yeah, he or she is hot!” or “I could definitely see her in the shower with the two of us”. It’s amazing how horny the two of us can get when looking for adult friends online. There are a few adult social network to choose from.

Adult Social Network

If you’re more daring, the two of you can find friends online and contact them. Maybe meet a woman for drinks and experience a threesome to start out. The adult social networks have couples, single men and single women all looking for fun experiences. If you’re even more daring, how about another couple? It’s just a little flirting and sex! Then the two of you can come back home and ravage each other like horny, passionate lions. It doesn’t have to be an emotional thing that interferes with your relationship. The experience should add spice and passion to your relationship.

Watch Graphic Porn Together

If sharing your spouse with another person or couple makes you hyper ventilate, maybe watching porn together is a good alternative. LOL. There’s no point watching porn alone when you have a spouse that can be fondling you while watching. Just saying.

Find Friends Online

Find something you both like. The objective behind watching porn together is to give some ideas that you can incorporate into your #sex life. It can be the positions, role-playing ideas or just to get you in the mood for some good sex. If your partner is not into porn, try some steamy books or anything erotic that both of you are comfortable with.

There are so many things you can do to spice up your sex life. As long as you are both willing to bring the passion back, you will never run out of ideas that turn your sexless marriage into a hot-bed of kinky romance. If all else fails, find friends online for some crazy fun!