A New Provocative Online Space

If looking for vanilla sex in the “real world” is difficult, looking for sexually adventurous encounters is ten times more so. If your search brought you to this post, you’re probably aware of this fact. Maybe you have an adultfriendfinder login but want to explore beyond that. The good news is that another oasis of pleasures is at the fingertips of those looking for passionate and unorthodox sexual delights. SAF Social is an open space for sexually adventurous adults with a wide variety of categories and a finely tuned sexual-networking system. Finding the risqué escapades that excite your libido is now as easy as checking a few boxes and then choosing from a smorgasbord of sensual images and steamy profiles.

During the process of signing up for SAF Social (which gives you the equivalent of an adultfriendfinder login), you get to explore as well as expand your sexual boundaries. While signing up, the site allows you to identify yourself as a bisexual male/female or a straight couple, and it lets you request your ideal scenario via choices ranging from soft swaps to full-on polyamory.

SAF Social also allows you to identify your ideal first date. Their choices span the spectrum of mature and consensual adult behavior—whether it’s of the tamer, exploratory type (“grab a drink only”) or the more sexually flagrant behavior that’s upfront about wanting immediate “sex if we click.” Along the way, you also get to choose if you’d prefer to meet at a vanilla/swinger club or if you’d like to add extra friends to the party to steam things up even further. We’re not saying throw away your adultfriendfinder login, but these very detailed selections make your SAF Social login so much more specific to your sexual needs than a basic aff login.

By giving you a variety of choices to identify your sexual orientation, SAF Social gives you sex play tailored to your most intimate and erotic desires. It ensures that you get seen by people interested in your method of sexual expression and allows you to include as much sexual variety as you would like. It also gives you the option not to share your sexuality—in case you’d like to take your time to explore the carnal pleasures on the site without committing to a particular sexual preference.

Provocative and animalistic connections are at your fingertips after sign-up, which only takes a few seconds and a few clicks. Better than an adultfriendfinder login, your SAF Social account gives you the freedom to be open, to create your own stories, blogs, and sexual encounters to spice up the sex lives of your friends and followers. You also get to enjoy sexy video stories from your connections and featured stories in your news feed. You’ll never get bored—and since these “sexperiences” come from your connections, you can make them real and personal whenever you want. A click of your mouse can quickly transform an online connection into a one-on-one sexual encounter in your bedroom.

If an adultfriendfinder login gives you access to a world of steamy sexual exploration, the SAF Social login gives you access to a universe. The idea behind general adult networking sites is to use an aff login (or the equivalent) to re-create the bar experience of meeting people online. Yet sites like SAF Social take the process of arranging adult sexual encounters a step further by combining this experience with shopping, group memberships, event promotion, and so much more. Joining the network is sure to supercharge the sexual life of sensual, mature, and adventurous adults.


How To Spice Up Your Marriage

Just shoot me! That’s my thought if I have to have sex with the same person for the rest of my life. Who came up with this crazy rule anyhow? It doesn’t feel right. Gone are the days of kinky sex, the thrill of first-time sex with a stranger, or the intense and steamy one-night stands with someone way hotter than I probably deserve. Truth be told, marriage can get boring, but why does it have to?

Sexual boredom has become the norm in so many relationships. The good news is that there are some things that your partner and you can do to bring the fire back like an erupting volcano.

Put on Something Racy That Will Capture Your Husband’s Attention

After being married for a long time, we get used to the comfy, cotton pajamas. It can be lingerie or just a fun and flirty silk outfit that will grab your husband’s attention like a magnet. If you are working on a tight budget, try something that you already have but you haven’t worn for a while. You can find great deals at the popular departmental store especially on their clearance sale. A simple t-shirt or button-down shirt with nothing else on is about as sexy as it gets for a man to see.

Date your Spouse

Many couples stop going on dates a few years after their wedding. Don’t allow your marriage to be stereotypical without fun or flirting. Bring the passion into the relationship. Invest in your marriage by spending time together with your spouse, just as if the two of you were first dating. Set aside a budget and allocate some money for your dates. You will be surprised that the more you spend time together on dates, home the more passion starts to build at home.

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Have Sex with Others

Try what my wife and I call “puppy shopping” on an adult website. It’s just like looking at cute puppies online. My wife and I like to go onto an adult social network like SAFSocial and view the singles and couples. We then comment like, “oh yeah, he or she is hot!” or “I could definitely see her in the shower with the two of us”. It’s amazing how horny the two of us can get when looking for adult friends online. There are a few adult social network to choose from.

Adult Social Network

If you’re more daring, the two of you can find friends online and contact them. Maybe meet a woman for drinks and experience a threesome to start out. The adult social networks have couples, single men and single women all looking for fun experiences. If you’re even more daring, how about another couple? It’s just a little flirting and sex! Then the two of you can come back home and ravage each other like horny, passionate lions. It doesn’t have to be an emotional thing that interferes with your relationship. The experience should add spice and passion to your relationship.

Watch Graphic Porn Together

If sharing your spouse with another person or couple makes you hyper ventilate, maybe watching porn together is a good alternative. LOL. There’s no point watching porn alone when you have a spouse that can be fondling you while watching. Just saying.

Find Friends Online

Find something you both like. The objective behind watching porn together is to give some ideas that you can incorporate into your #sex life. It can be the positions, role-playing ideas or just to get you in the mood for some good sex. If your partner is not into porn, try some steamy books or anything erotic that both of you are comfortable with.

There are so many things you can do to spice up your sex life. As long as you are both willing to bring the passion back, you will never run out of ideas that turn your sexless marriage into a hot-bed of kinky romance. If all else fails, find friends online for some crazy fun!

What to Expect the First Time at a Swinger’s Party

Ever thought of what it would be like to attend a swinger’s party? Well, we’re going to give you a first-hand experience and even tell you where to find swinger’s parties.

My wife and I ventured into swinging after 15 years of monogamous marriage. It was my wife’s idea. She wanted to try out women, and who am I to object seeing a little woman on woman action?

Our First Experience as a Swinger

OMG is all I can say about our first swinger party experience. I’m a 49-year-old male feeling like a horny teenager. We had met this couple online from a website called SAFSocial. They we’re really cute. He was a good-looking frat boy type and she was a pretty blond in her early 30’s. The two of them had been swinging for about 5 years. My wife contacted them on SAFSocial and asked them out for dinner. To our surprise, they said yes. During dinner, we chatted and had a few drinks when they asked us if we’d like to come back to their place. I was incredibly nervous. I had been with the same women for 15 years and had only been with a handful of women prior to meeting my wife. I guess there’s nothing like popping the swinger cherry!

After a couple of dates and some fantastic sex, our swinging partners asked us if we’d like to attend a swinger party with about 15 of their swinger couple friends. We felt like we had made it to the “In crowd” of swinger couples. We we’re proud of our accomplishment while at the same time scared shitless of what would occur at this party.

Our First Experience at a Swinger’s Party

We were given the address and showed up on a Saturday night to a person’s house that we’ve never met before. Cars we’re parked up and down the street. My wife and I looked at each other and said “we can’t believe that we’ve become swingers and we’re doing this”.

Luckily, everyone at the party was super nice and it didn’t hurt that all the ladies were very sexy. I told one of the other husbands that I couldn’t pick which one of the ladies I wanted to be with that night. He laughed and said “all of them”. I thought he was kidding and I chuckled along side him. I found out later that he wasn’t kidding!

After a few drinks, everyone ripped off their clothes and jumped in a large hot tub. It was so freaking hot, and I’m not talking about the hot tub. I ended up with seven smoking hot women all over me in the hot tub, the bedroom, the couch and the pool table. I must have burnt 2,000 calories. My wife had an equally mesmerizing time. We couldn’t stop talking about that night for weeks. The two of us we’re so horny after that night that we were like newlyweds all over again. It was an incredible experience that I will never forget.

If you get an opportunity to attend a swinger’s party, overcome your fears and do it. It’s definitely a life experience every person should add to their bucket list!

Basic Rules For The Swinger Lifestyle / Written By A Swinger

Ever thought about spicing up your marriage or relationship by swinging? Before we take a look at some basic rules for the swinger lifestyle, we have to first understand what the swinger lifestyle means. Swinging is where you and your spouse or significant have sexual encounters with other willing partners, usually together as a team. If you never got to play team sports in high school or college, now’s your time to make it for it!

There’s primarily two types of swinging, soft swap and hard swap.

A soft swap is usually done by couples who are trying out the lifestyle for the first time. It involves sexual activity such as oral sex, kissing, fingering, touching and hand jobs. Sexual intercourse or penetration is off limits.

Hard swap, on the other hand, entails all kinds of sexual activity including intercourse. Before engaging in the swinger lifestyle, I would highly recommend that your partner and you discuss comfort levels and come to an agreement of what will be allowed. It’s very important that each partner respect the other’s wishes and what limits were agreed to. I can’t emphasize this importance enough.

Talk with Your Partner and Make Sure You are Both on the Same Page

Communication is incredibly important if you want to be able to express your deepest desires and fears. Engaging in the swinger lifestyle can be complicated as you are inviting other people into your bedroom. You may feel embarrassed talking to your partner about swinging and some of your desires. However, open communication with your partner is critical and will enhance your marriage in more ways than you can imagine. Even if you never have sex with anyone outside of the two of you, the increased communication will reap so much trust and connection that it alone will be worth the journey. Don’t even try swinging unless you’re both on the same page with rules and expectations.

Don’t do Anything Behind Your Partners Back

You’ve now decided to engage in swinging as a couple. Your spouse is allowing you to sleep with other people, don’t screw it up! I’ve seen this happen several times in my 6 years of being in the swinging lifestyle. One spouse gets greedy and tries to do things outside of what was agreed to. You’re already one of the luckiest spouses in the world to have a partner who allows you to sleep with other people. Be grateful for the opportunity. You may never get the same opportunity again! There’s a reason why swingers only have a 2% divorce rate versus the 50% average.

Always be on your partner’s side and ensure that they are okay with what you are doing, especially if attending a sex club or swinger party. Swinging is much more enjoyable if performed as a team. You’ll have a built-in wing man or woman. Lol. If you want to go solo, ensure that your significant other is okay with it. Don’t indulge yourself behind your partners back; that is not swinging, it is cheating.

Enjoy Yourself

The swinger lifestyle can be some of the most fun you’ve ever had. I promise. Have fun and experiment with anything that excites you. Most people in the lifestyle are very nice and respectful. You’ll get an opportunity to develop some great friendships with fun benefits. Experience your wildest fantasies and have fun.

You Have the Right to Say ‘No’

Saying no is considered a fundamental etiquette in swinging. You should be able to decline advances if you’re uncomfortable without any explanation. Just keep it simple straight forward and above all polite.

Go check out a sex club or swinger party. Use one of the swinger websites like SAFSocial or Adult Friend Finder.

Caught My Girlfriend Masturbating

I am a workaholic, but my girlfriend, Hannah, still loves me. I would go on business trips that lasted for weeks. While away on business, we masturbated on facetime occasionally, but that was the extent or our sexual adventures.

I always fantasized about bondage, having a threesome, or going to a sex club, but never had the courage to tell me girlfriend. It just felt a little weird.

Hannah is one hell of a sexy woman. She’s a little over five feet tall and has long dark hair that compliments her silky skin and pretty blue eyes. I like her round smooth ass, but her perfectly shaped breast is a turn-on for any man.

One day after a three-week business trip to Berlin, I wanted to surprise her. The trip was supposed to be three weeks long, but the clients were working on a tight schedule, so the trip ended three days early.

The idea was to break in my own house with a mask and role play as a robber. Knowing that I would scare her if a came at night, I waited until she left for the gym. I knew I had about two hours before she returned. I had a good idea of what I wanted to do to her. I planned to take her from behind, putting one hand around her throat while pulling her hair with my other hand as I banged her brains out.

With about ten minutes remaining before Hannah came home, I parked my car at a safe distance so she wouldn’t notice and walked to the house. I hid in the closet to surprise her from behind when she came out of the shower. It seemed like an eternity in the closet, but within a few minutes, she was home. As she opened the front door, my heart started to pound vigorously. I guess I was just nervous in anticipation of what would happen next.

She walked into the bedroom and started undressing for a shower as I had planned. She first removed her t-shirt and dropped it on the floor. She then removed her tight sweatpants, sliding them off her long beautiful legs. She continued by unfastening her bra and then hooked her hands inside her panties and slid them off, slowly exposing her clean, shaved pussy. I had already started getting a boner by the view of her gorgeous body.

She walked to the drawer and pulled out a huge strapless strap-on and a vibrator. She then sat on the edge of the bed and turned on the vibrator. She held it on one hand while spreading the cheeks of her vagina on the other hand. Her clit popped out as it was aroused already. She was soon moaning while taking the vibrator in and out of her wet pussy. I unzipped my trousers and started jerking off. No Viagra was needed; I was hard as a rock.

Meanwhile, she was making this oh, awe sound as the vibrator moved up and down her pussy. Her ass came off the bed and she inserted the vibrator back in her pussy. She started screaming, oh, fuck! Oh fuck! and before long, her pussy started to contract with a spasm of pleasure and about 15 seconds of non-stop orgasm. I couldn’t take it anymore. There was no way I could wait until after she took a shower. I busted out of the closet and fulfilled my first sexual fantasy. It enhanced our relationship immensely. Hannah and I made a list of our fantasies and are planning what’s next.