Basic Rules For The Swinger Lifestyle / Written By A Swinger

Ever thought about spicing up your marriage or relationship by swinging? Before we take a look at some basic rules for the swinger lifestyle, we have to first understand what the swinger lifestyle means. Swinging is where you and your spouse or significant have sexual encounters with other willing partners, usually together as a team. If you never got to play team sports in high school or college, now’s your time to make it for it!

There’s primarily two types of swinging, soft swap and hard swap.

A soft swap is usually done by couples who are trying out the lifestyle for the first time. It involves sexual activity such as oral sex, kissing, fingering, touching and hand jobs. Sexual intercourse or penetration is off limits.

Hard swap, on the other hand, entails all kinds of sexual activity including intercourse. Before engaging in the swinger lifestyle, I would highly recommend that your partner and you discuss comfort levels and come to an agreement of what will be allowed. It’s very important that each partner respect the other’s wishes and what limits were agreed to. I can’t emphasize this importance enough.

Talk with Your Partner and Make Sure You are Both on the Same Page

Communication is incredibly important if you want to be able to express your deepest desires and fears. Engaging in the swinger lifestyle can be complicated as you are inviting other people into your bedroom. You may feel embarrassed talking to your partner about swinging and some of your desires. However, open communication with your partner is critical and will enhance your marriage in more ways than you can imagine. Even if you never have sex with anyone outside of the two of you, the increased communication will reap so much trust and connection that it alone will be worth the journey. Don’t even try swinging unless you’re both on the same page with rules and expectations.

Don’t do Anything Behind Your Partners Back

You’ve now decided to engage in swinging as a couple. Your spouse is allowing you to sleep with other people, don’t screw it up! I’ve seen this happen several times in my 6 years of being in the swinging lifestyle. One spouse gets greedy and tries to do things outside of what was agreed to. You’re already one of the luckiest spouses in the world to have a partner who allows you to sleep with other people. Be grateful for the opportunity. You may never get the same opportunity again! There’s a reason why swingers only have a 2% divorce rate versus the 50% average.

Always be on your partner’s side and ensure that they are okay with what you are doing, especially if attending a sex club or swinger party. Swinging is much more enjoyable if performed as a team. You’ll have a built-in wing man or woman. Lol. If you want to go solo, ensure that your significant other is okay with it. Don’t indulge yourself behind your partners back; that is not swinging, it is cheating.

Enjoy Yourself

The swinger lifestyle can be some of the most fun you’ve ever had. I promise. Have fun and experiment with anything that excites you. Most people in the lifestyle are very nice and respectful. You’ll get an opportunity to develop some great friendships with fun benefits. Experience your wildest fantasies and have fun.

You Have the Right to Say ‘No’

Saying no is considered a fundamental etiquette in swinging. You should be able to decline advances if you’re uncomfortable without any explanation. Just keep it simple straight forward and above all polite.

Go check out a sex club or swinger party. Use one of the swinger websites like SAFSocial or Adult Friend Finder.

Caught My Girlfriend Masturbating

I am a workaholic, but my girlfriend, Hannah, still loves me. I would go on business trips that lasted for weeks. While away on business, we masturbated on facetime occasionally, but that was the extent or our sexual adventures.

I always fantasized about bondage, having a threesome, or going to a sex club, but never had the courage to tell me girlfriend. It just felt a little weird.

Hannah is one hell of a sexy woman. She’s a little over five feet tall and has long dark hair that compliments her silky skin and pretty blue eyes. I like her round smooth ass, but her perfectly shaped breast is a turn-on for any man.

One day after a three-week business trip to Berlin, I wanted to surprise her. The trip was supposed to be three weeks long, but the clients were working on a tight schedule, so the trip ended three days early.

The idea was to break in my own house with a mask and role play as a robber. Knowing that I would scare her if a came at night, I waited until she left for the gym. I knew I had about two hours before she returned. I had a good idea of what I wanted to do to her. I planned to take her from behind, putting one hand around her throat while pulling her hair with my other hand as I banged her brains out.

With about ten minutes remaining before Hannah came home, I parked my car at a safe distance so she wouldn’t notice and walked to the house. I hid in the closet to surprise her from behind when she came out of the shower. It seemed like an eternity in the closet, but within a few minutes, she was home. As she opened the front door, my heart started to pound vigorously. I guess I was just nervous in anticipation of what would happen next.

She walked into the bedroom and started undressing for a shower as I had planned. She first removed her t-shirt and dropped it on the floor. She then removed her tight sweatpants, sliding them off her long beautiful legs. She continued by unfastening her bra and then hooked her hands inside her panties and slid them off, slowly exposing her clean, shaved pussy. I had already started getting a boner by the view of her gorgeous body.

She walked to the drawer and pulled out a huge strapless strap-on and a vibrator. She then sat on the edge of the bed and turned on the vibrator. She held it on one hand while spreading the cheeks of her vagina on the other hand. Her clit popped out as it was aroused already. She was soon moaning while taking the vibrator in and out of her wet pussy. I unzipped my trousers and started jerking off. No Viagra was needed; I was hard as a rock.

Meanwhile, she was making this oh, awe sound as the vibrator moved up and down her pussy. Her ass came off the bed and she inserted the vibrator back in her pussy. She started screaming, oh, fuck! Oh fuck! and before long, her pussy started to contract with a spasm of pleasure and about 15 seconds of non-stop orgasm. I couldn’t take it anymore. There was no way I could wait until after she took a shower. I busted out of the closet and fulfilled my first sexual fantasy. It enhanced our relationship immensely. Hannah and I made a list of our fantasies and are planning what’s next.

Adventures At The Swingers Club

It’s a Saturday night, and as usual, I am alone in the living room watching NFL. It was one tough match between the Dolphins vs. Patriots. As the game ended, I got bored and decided to scroll through my SAF Social and Adultfriendfinder profile to see if I could get lucky that night.

I am a high school teacher working at a local school. It has been close to eight years now, and my career was on the right trajectory. However, my social life was a mess, and it was really difficult for me to interact with new women.

As I continued to scroll down my phone, a popup notification appeared on the screen, “Hey handsome, it’s been a long time, but you haven’t changed a bit. I immediately recognized the profile photo. It was Cherry, my high school crush. As soon as I saw her pictures, my head went wild. I started having thoughts of us fucking in the car. At one point, we were on a road trip, and all of a sudden, she started moving her hands toward my crotch. My dick was hardening, and she would rub even faster. She would then unzip my jeans and put my dick in her mouth. I came back to my senses and only wished it was true.

She told me she was in town and lucky for me, the club she was in was only ten minutes away. Back then, she was quite naughty, and it didn’t bother me that she was in a swinger’s club. I joined her and ordered a drink. As we continue to catch up, all I could think about was removing Chery’s clothes and fucking her nonstop like someone on Viagra.

What brought me back to my senses was her smile when she told me that she was in town just to see me. Apparently, she was also into me and wanted to fulfill her sexual fantasy before moving into another city miles away. She stood up from the chair and signaled me to follow her. She was waiting in a dark corner where nobody could see us. She had already unbuttoned her trench coat, and I could see she had nothing underneath.

She reached for my zip and grabbed my hard dick shoving it into her mouth. It felt really good. She gave me a blowjob like a woman on a mission to the point I exploded, leaving her mouth full of jizz. I bent down on my knees and placed her lifted her left leg so that it was on my shoulder. I could smell her wet pussy, which really turned me on. I licked her pussy all round but purposefully avoiding her clit. She started moaning and screaming, “lick me, lick me, you motherfucker!”; her groans and tight grip on my head was my sign that it was time for more.

I grabbed her ass, lubed my fingers with her sweet-scented ecstasy juices dripping from her pussy. I stuck my finger up her asshole, and she let out a loud yell. I reached her clitoris and pressed them with my tongue, moving up and down at a steady pace following her body language, and she had an orgasm. I removed my fingers but continued to lick for a while until she calmed down and regained her composure. We dressed up ready for penetration, but that is a story for another day.

Connect With New People Through Friend Finder Platform!

Moving at a new place far away from your old friends or switching your workplace where you hardly know anyone can be really depressing. What is the solution supposed to be?

Sitting at the bar and seeing others chilling with their friends or having those awkward talks with strangers doesn’t sound fun when you can make new friends online. There are a few legit adult social networking online sites like Adult Friend Finder, SAF Social, etc.

The adult social networks allow you to connect with new people and make some like-minded sexy adult friends. You can post your photos and check out the photos of other people on the site. You can view some amazing videos and even get an invite of happening events and parties where you get a chance to meet your online friends and get to know each other in a better way (wink-wink).

You can create a group and join some existing groups to have a super fun chat with the members. The online platforms allow you to talk or video chat to your friends privately.

Whether single or married in a consensual relationship, some of the adult social networks like SAF Social offers adult travel events, resorts and cruises to spice things up.

Most of the adult social platforms offer clean podcasts that discuss topics such as having your first threesome, how to get your partner on board with swinging or visiting a sex club for the first time.

If you want to spice up an existing relationship or simply a fresh start to hook up with friends and satisfy your sexual fantasies, you can do all this on these adult social networking platforms.

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Experimenting and having various sexual adventures is a sure way that has been proven to help build a stronger and better relationship. Because even though we do not like admitting it, having a single partner or carrying out the same sex routine over a long period of time can quickly make things stale and boring in the bedroom. That is why you need to look to experience new stuffs and try out new things in the other room every now and then.
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