Lesbians Meet

It’s hardly necessary to point out how difficult it is to meet other lesbians for social and sexual encounters. It’s easier in some communities than in others. Smaller or more conservative areas suffer from either a scarcity of persons to connect with or a fear of ridicule. But even big cities have their challenges, and even though people might expect a lot of lesbians in big cities to be “out,” the difficulties of navigating a large metropolis complicates the problem of finding love, #sex, and social acceptance.

So how does one go about finding other gay women with whom to connect and have friendships or romantic interludes? The answer is far more favorable today than it was 20 years ago, thanks to the existence of Adult Social Networks that cater to the LGTBQ demographic. It’s not always easy to simply get involved in interesting activities and hope someone of your sexual orientation will also be interested. It’s better to have a way of actively seeking out those people that share your interests and your sexual orientation.


Filters—which help you select the features you’d like in a partner or match—are not exactly an organic meeting experience, but they help a lot. This is what social networks provide, especially now that the internet has been refined and dating sites have apps that can be more thoroughly integrated into our everyday lives.


HER is an app that provides social networking for lesbians, and its developers and administrators work hard to make it a healthy space where people can be open about their desires for sex and partnership. Many users are tired of dating sites that pretend to cater to lesbians and still provide guys in their match list. It’s often the case that such sites will provide a female match who merely wants someone to tag along on a threesome with her and her man.

HER’s social-media dating app is dedicated to creating a space that’s truly for lesbians, so that once you get connected, all you have to worry about is finding a niche based on your interests. HER is a very large network of 4 million members worldwide, and was made “for queer womxn, by queer womxn.” This means once you select your label—female, non-binary, gender-fluid, etc.—and identify your interests, you’ll have a lot of genuine matches to choose from.

The site doesn’t actually allow active searches, though, preferring to allow users to message only friends and people chosen as matches by the system. However, other Adult Social Networks, such as Plenty of Fish and SAF Social, provide search functions to support your hunt for other lesbians who share your interests. This increases your chances of finding someone you’ll actually enjoy spending time with. Plenty of Fish and SAFSocial cater to a broader user base, but they still create havens for women to meet other women. Plus, SAF Social has a “Lesbians and Bi-Sexual Women Sanctuary” to make the process of finding partnerships easier.

To use a cliché—it’s really a jungle out there for any woman looking for love, and especially a lesbian trying to open up socially and sexually without being inundated by unwanted attention from guys. Adult networks that know how to cater to the LGBTQ community are key to creating a life that satisfies your personal desire for love and companionship.


Tantric Sex

He found Kasidie after doing an online search for “lifestyle sex and spiritual swinger action.” He’d just strung the keywords together and crossed his fingers. And he’d struck gold!

Like many other guys, Jayson spent a lot of time being horny. Hot, wet, sweaty sex was an important part of his nights, and he had his share of women who would provide that for him. But even when he wasn’t horny, he wanted his social life to be filled with sensual experiences. Sure, the guys told raunchy sex jokes and described their (likely exaggerated!) escapades with women. But that wasn’t enough for him, somehow.

Strangely enough, sexiness for Jayson had to go way deeper than that. He was a spiritual person. He knew it was a contradiction to want to mix spirituality and sexiness, but he couldn’t help it, and he realized that achieving this was going to require some savvy. It would take special support from his social circle, and the guys couldn’t provide that. He could hardly blame them because he’d never found a way to mix his passion for sex with his spirituality. Imagine chatting about your favorite spiritual topic with a group of persons who are as dedicated to sexual freedom as you are!


The cool thing was that Kasidie actually provided that outlet he needed by being a growing online community where people in the lifestyle can explore ways to engage with other sexually expressive people and fully discover themselves. That was the attraction for Jayson.

What he’d found especially useful on Kasidie was the community function. This worked for him because the Kasidie website started with sexual adventure as the foundation and then allowed the members to create any kind of group they wanted. Jayson saw communities that ranged from guitar lovers to ant farming. And he literally found several groups with the spirituality focus he was looking for.

Those first few leads eventually helped him assemble a circle of friends who were spiritual like him, but whose sexual restraint was close to non-existent—unlike most of the spiritual persons he’d known before.

Take Stacey, for instance. He met her in one of those groups, and she introduced him to some tantric ideas. They were ideas he’d kind of been toying with before but never had the vocabulary to express. Stacey was the epitome of sexual freedom; she thought of restraint only in terms of handcuffs, belts, whips, and tassels—not in terms of repression.

Enlightenment sex with her was amazing. It forced Jayson to quell the animal passion that wanted to rush toward orgasm. Instead, slowly and sensuously, she taught him to focus on a spiritual connection—eye contact, relaxation, consciousness, and meditation during the sexual act. The pleasure was exquisite and hedonistic at once. It was prolonged because his mind was focused less on her physical beauty and more on her spiritual beauty. But since he was still inside her and being slowly stimulated by the soft warmth of her vagina, the orgasmic pleasure kept building anyway, and it took him to the longest, most gut-wrenching climax he had ever experienced.

Tantric Sex

He made other friends, as well, both in group sessions and one-on-one. Some he engaged with sexually, while others were strictly platonic friendships. But all his friendships were much more fulfilling now since he felt more of a connection with these people who enjoy sexual freedom as much as he did. Kasidie helped him out tremendously by making information easily available to a guy like him—one who loved sex, loved making connections, and enjoyed mixing spirituality with eroticism.

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The Allure of the Bisexual Woman

I’m not sure if all men enjoy dating bisexual women, but I certainly do. I have specific reasons for this. I can’t deny that I like seeing my woman engaging in girl-on-girl action with other women (who doesn’t, right?), but my straight girlfriends in the past usually resisted when I suggested a threesome. Another thing is that I’m a very enthusiastic nudist. I have a good body—I work hard on it, and I like showing it off openly and flagrantly. I enjoy being in an environment where everyone’s free with their bodies and nude women are readily available for viewing in the flesh. I don’t know if there’s a real correlation or if it’s just a coincidence, but the bisexual women I’ve dated have also been more eager than others when I’ve invited them to nudist events.

I met my first bisexual girlfriend at a nude beach, actually. She was tanning on her stomach and had a really sexy ass. I was staring at it for a little while until I noticed that it was turning a little red, so I thought I had the perfect opportunity to talk to her. I already knew she had a great body, and when I said, “Excuse me,” and she turned her head, I was greeted by a cute face sporting a questioning but not unwelcoming expression.

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Actually, I saw the smallest hint of appreciation when she glanced at my face, and then when her gaze went down my body. Let’s face it: I was not exactly flaccid down there after having taken in the view of her perky behind for about 30 seconds. I reminded myself to speak. “You should probably turn over now if you want to be able to sit on that sexy ass later.” I took another glance at it, thought about fitting myself into that little gap below the cheeks, and felt myself getting harder.

I didn’t have time to look away before she thanked me and rolled over. Damn! She was even sexier from the front.

It turns out she was at the beach with a friend. A girl. They weren’t together exactly, but they’d been on a couple of dates. Both were bisexual women, and their relationship wasn’t exclusive. She gave me her number, and after a couple of dates at regular bars, we went to a swinger club together.

Even though we only did voyeuristic stuff together at that first swinger club, that was when I realized how much I was going to enjoy dating her because she was a bisexual woman. She was open to engaging in the wild, hedonistic sensual pleasures that got my blood racing.

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When we finally had sex the first time, we decided to make it one-on-one, but the amazing part was the foreplay. It involved a lengthy session of watching lesbian porn, and it got me so hard to watch her masturbate to the sexy action on the screen. She was enjoying the women as they touched, licked, and sucked each other as much as I was.

And it was amazing taking her from behind with the big screen in front of us, showing the two women going at it. It was so hot hearing her moan and scream while I slammed her over and over, harder and harder.

The rest, as they say, is history. But yeah, Karrie was my first, and she clinched it for me. Bisexual women are great to date if you really want to enjoy an adventurous sexual lifestyle.